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Interview with Jay from Arakeye.

Posted on: November 28th, 2016 by Greg Jordan 1 Comment

 

Greetings reader. A couple of days ago i caught up with Jay from Aussie band Arakeye.  Here’s the interview.

 

Hello Jay. Welcome to Metalhealth and thanks for being here.

 

Hi Greg, thanks for having me man!

 

What does good mental health mean to you?

 

I believe it comes down to having a good balance of every aspect of your life in regards to work, home & family life and your interests. We need to feel a belonging somewhere and not stress too much about things that we cannot change. Having healthy relationships, adequate sleep, the right diet and exercising regularly is also important, without any structure, it can be easy to fall in to some bad habits that can jeopardise your mental health.

 

I love the passion in your music and lyrics. Where do you think that comes from?

 

Thank you!

The lyrics I write, like a lot of songwriters, come from life experiences and observing the world around you. I get a lot of inspiration from society and people in general, we are complex creatures that offer an abundance of interesting issues to write about.

 

–  How is life for you off the road or when you’re not gigging? Especially after a tour or big event, is it difficult to adjust back into life at home after time on the road? If so, how do you adjust/cope?

 

We’ve been pretty lucky in Arakeye so far, our gigs are never too far apart and interstate jaunts are treated like weekend getaways & always great fun. We already have some new material in the pipeline after ATMOSFEARS is out there, so that’s exciting. We always make sure we have something to look forward to whether it be a new album, track release, music video, demoing at our drummer’s house (Tyson). We also get together for ‘Arakeye Family Dinners’ which involve our partners and children. We’re a close knit bunch and are happier people for it!

 

What motivates you? What keeps you going?

 

The excitement of people hearing our music and getting something out of it, connecting at some level I suppose. That’s the best part of it for me, people coming up to you and speaking from the heart, it makes you feel like you are contributing and it’s worthwhile. I also like to challenge myself to write very different songs and lyrics to any previous tracks we release, exploring & touching on different genres is something that keeps me motivated to continue writing.

 

Are you a positive thinker? How do you stay positive?

 

I’d say for the most part I’m positive, but we all get those days where the facets of our world are out of balance and the gloom & doubt sets in. My day job of working with people with disabilities can be sad at times but also very uplifting.

But after work I know that I have a wife and two beautiful children to come home to so it’s quite easy for me to get back to positive town!

 

Have you experienced any tough times personally that you’d be okay talking about? If so, how are you/did you get through this.

 

In 2003 I was witness to a horrific car accident where a pedestrian was hit and nearly died, I was first on the scene to comfort her & her 2 year old son, while my Dad phoned an ambulance & also helped out the driver of the car that was involved. Just an unfortunate situation all round, no ones fault, kids will run out onto roads and parents won’t think twice to follow them blindly. Everybody came through it, but I was 19 at the time and it really affected me mentally, I didn’t eat for a few days and so began a downward spiral. I lost three friends in the space of 3 months in a range of circumstances not long after that and I developed Anxiety Disorder, Depression and Agoraphobia. I had to defer my final year of Uni, I was still living at home at the time and couldn’t leave the house for a year without anxiety related problems, but with the help of my family & friends, Buddhism & spirituality, I got through it.

I went back and finished my degree the following year and I’ve just kept moving forward ever since. Performing on stage was so far away back then, I honestly never thought I would perform again because of the crippling panic attacks. But here I am, 12 years later, married with 2 kids, playing 12-15 shows a year and loving life. I really feel for people who go through these tough times and aren’t fortunate enough to have these support structures around them while dealing with mental health issues.

 

Geez that’s rough! Congratulations on finishing your degree and getting yourself back onstage. What does making music mean for you? Why do you do it?

 

Music has been a constant in my life for 15 years, so it’s part of who I am really. It’s very therapeutic to be creative and this is my outlet. It is a stress reliever for me, I enjoy it, have had some success at it and will continue to try and write better songs.

 

Congratulations on the release of your new album ATMOSFEARS. I really enjoyed listening to the second single from the album, ‘Isolated Existence’. How was the recording process? Did you bang it down live, or record one instrument at a time etc?

 

Thanks for the feedback mate!

Recording was a long process that took nearly 12 months. We started 2 years ago demoing every track at Tyson’s home studio to use as a reference while we recorded. Each part was recorded separately at ColourSound Studio & we all had our allotted timeframe to get our parts completed. That allowed a very thorough mixing process, getting the chance to hear 5 or 6 versions of each song from Mat was great. We could hone in and get everything exactly how we wanted it to sound. After all the instrumental parts and vocals were completed, Tyson & Mat set about laying our keys/electronics & ambience on top which I believe gives our album a unique sound along with Hass’ interesting guitar sounds.

 

So what are the bands/your future plans?  Some more touring or any dates you can mention?

 

I think we’ll focus on the next stage of writing after the album launch. It’s been a big year, but it’ll be exciting to load up again in 2017. If there’s enough interest in ATMOSFEARS, we’d love to tour it eventually, but time will tell!

 

Any other projects musical or otherwise happening?

 

Arakeye takes up pretty much all the time I have to spare at the moment, but I would love to get back to playing guitar and maybe start a side project in the future.

 

Ok, last question! What would you say to fans who are struggling with their mental health, or doing it tough at the moment?

 

There’s always hope so don’t give up. Push through it, a little at a time. Think positively, make new friends and try new things. Get around your family and friends and take more of an interest in what they are doing to take your mind off yourself for a while. There’s also excellent resources available online such as Headspace & Beyond Blue where anyone can go to chat or find the help they need.

 

Thank you for taking the time to talk with us Jay. We wish you safe travels, and congratulations to you and the band on the new record.

 

All the best. Greg \Mh/.

 

Thanks Greg!

 

Some links to the bands music –

https://www.facebook.com/Arakeye/

www.reverbnation.com/arakeye

Black Daffodils interview October 2016

Posted on: October 25th, 2016 by Greg Jordan No Comments

METALHEALTH Interview 16th October 2016.

Greetings reader. Here’s an interview i did recently with ace German band Black Daffodils. Take it easy.

 

Hello Black Daffodils. Welcome to Metalhealth and thanks for being here.

Andrea: Hi Greg, thanks for having us here!

What does good mental health mean to you?

Michael: That’s a very good question, since there is no easy answer. Good mental health means, at least to me, staying well-adjusted. No one can avoid stress, frustration or grief in his or her live completely, which I think are great risks in triggering mental problems. But as long as you are able to compensate by relaxation, achievements and happiness, that’s OK. Of course I am aware, that this is a very, very simplified opinion which only applies to mentally healthy people, and even there everyone has his or her own level of resilience.

–  I agree with you. Well said. How is life for you off the road or when you’re not gigging? Especially after a tour or big event, is it difficult to adjust back into life at home after time on the road? If so, how do you adjust/cope?

Andrea: Since we all have a job it sometimes can be really stressful if a gig is on the same day you had to work before. Sometimes we have to drive a long way back home after a show and we are awake almost 24 hours. This can sometimes be exhausting. But most of our gigs are on Saturdays and this is much better because you are much more relaxed.

What motivates you? What keeps you going?

Michael: Since I never was the “settle-down-guy”: Learning and experiencing new things is the greatest motivation for me.

Are you a positive thinker? How do you stay positive?

Michael: Definitely yes. If something does not work out, I just repeat my mantra: “Could have come worse!”

Have you experienced any tough times personally that you’d be okay talking about? If so, how are you/did you get through this.

Michael: Luckily, not really. On a small trip down memory lane, I think my biggest setback was quitting my university studies after only one year. Of course, that was not received very well by my family back then. Not at all, to be honest. What did I do? I decided, that a Masters degree is definitely not my way to go and went for a Bachelors degree (Back then, that were two entirely different degree programs here in Germany.). Although my family did not like that at all (NO REAL UNIVERSITY!), I really loved that school and got my B.sc. quite fast. One funny thing I’d like to mention here: I did get a M.sc. a couple of years later, after I quit my job (Why? Honestly: I was getting bored.) to enroll at a Masters program. I really loved going to university then. Maybe we sometimes just need some time.

What does making music mean for you? Why do you do it?

Andrea: It is our passion and we don’t want to miss it in our lives. It feels great when a new song comes to life and it feels even greater to play live. It is something where we can be very creative.

Enjoyed listening to and watching the video of Into the sun, from the album of the same name. I love the cover artwork for Into the sun and also the Broken flower album. They look really cool. How was the recording process for these records? Did you bang it down live, or record an instrument at a time etc?

Andrea: Thank you, glad that you like it. The recording process of these two cds was similar. When we recorded Broken Flower we did the drums and vocal in a studio and recorded the other instruments ourselves and on Into the sun we recorded everything ourselves – everyone of us recorded his instrument. The covers of these two records were made by me.

 – Congratulations all round Andrea. So what are your plans with Into the sun?  Some more touring or any dates you can mention? I see you have the female metal night gig coming up October 29th. Huge!  Any other projects musical or otherwise happening?

Andrea: Yes we already did a lot of gigs this year after the album was released. A few days ago we had our first unplugged gig, which we enjoyed very much. We plan to do some more smaller acoustic shows in near future. We will also have some more dates with our Into the sun Tour this year. One of them is the date you mentioned. And in December we will also play our first show abroad in the Czech Republic.

Next year our band will have its 10th anniversary and we also intent to have a cool anniversary show, but there are not yet any concrete plans for it.

Looking forward to your 10th anniversary! I think the Czech Republic will be amazing.

Ok, last question. What would you say to fans who are struggling with their mental health, or doing it tough at the moment?

Michael: Since I have some friends who were struggling with their mental health, I can only suggest to accept that you have a problem and try to get (professional) help as soon as possible. Delaying this two steps will most likely enlarge a problem/illness which could be cured.

Thank you Black Daffodils for taking the time to talk with us. We wish you safe travels, and all the best with the album and gigs.

Check out links to the bands excellent music pages below. Take it easy out there. Greg \Mh/.

www.black-daffodils.com

www.facebook.com/blackdaffodils

Mental health week 9th – 15th October 2016.

Posted on: October 11th, 2016 by Greg Jordan No Comments

G’day reader,

World mental health day 2016 is on October 10th, and Mental health week here in Oz runs from 9-15th October. So, a bit more info and conversation about mental health from governments and mental health services than usual. However this is a conversation that we must continue to have throughout the year, not just during mental health week. Take it easy.

http://www.mentalhealthcommission.gov.au/media-centre/events/world-mental-health-day-and-national-mental-health-week-2016.aspx

Greg \MH/

 

Don Watson treks for mental health (and cancer).

Posted on: March 7th, 2015 by Greg Jordan No Comments

Hello reader,

Great to see attention being drawn to mental health (and in this case cancer) through the efforts of an Aussie Don Watson. Don walked/trekked from Fremantle in Western Australia to Sydney, a distance of over 5,000 kilometres! He raised around $28,000 for mental health and cancer programs. Well done Don, and thanks!

http://www.abc.net.au/news/2015-03-07/perth-to-sydney-trek-raises-money-for-cancer-and-mental-health/6285564

More band  interviews coming real soon. Take it easy out there.

Greg \Mh/